here's why i am still not married when a lot of my friends are busy procreating. c'mon, off with it, if you could be so blunt to speculate the reasons (someone once doubted my libido) to my postponing a lifetime taking care of a man who might not end up being worth it, so can i be blunt with what you do after saying 'i do'.
because
because
because Bruno Mars is too far-fetched an option. until i have a better option, i'll wait for Mars. besides, knowing that it's impossible makes it endurable. i don't get my hopes high.
on the other hand, i congratulate people who understand that the concept of matrimony is not in a big wedding and people who don't give a rat's ass about what others say if they hold a private ceremony. if after 3 children you're still paying for the loan you took for your wedding , then hell, it's quite sad.
you buy a car with a loan, and if you don't pay the installment, the bank takes away your car. in the case of a wedding, since all the fancy cupcakes and roasted lambs are all finished, i wonder what the bank should take. not the bed.
on the other other hand, if being married means your wife can spend her free time on her iPad that you helped to pay for and lets the maid take care of the house and the kids but still complain of being tired and busy, shouldn't you marry the maid by now?
i am not being sarcastic, or bitter. i just believe that if you get a license to legally spend your lifetime with someone you love or lust over, i also deserve my space for my own life. i don't need your point of view.
8 schphink:
adk na buat goody bag tok door gift kak kawen.hoho
haha! nice one teha. not surprisingly, there are people like that.
you know what, don't listen to them. besides if you're married now, i don't know if i can read your writings anymore. busy melayan suami kate kan.. knowing how penyayang you are kan.. haha!
and i think we should just set our priority on Allah and everything will come together nicely.
cb: kak nk bagi pet ameoba sorang sekor. a small reception at secret recipe somewhere, so i think i can afford them amoeba for the few guests. haha.
xldx: tu yg aku malas, layan laki. tak boleh ke jumpa on weekend je. hahaha.
but your last sentence, its' refreshing. thanks :)
and aku nak buat the cake for your wedding! :D
amoeba tu nnt kene bela bagi makan ape? ;p
and why would people speculate? seriously gile xde kerja. haha.
oh my, aku mmg cannot stop kan.
just nk share this:
We need to stop making our unmarried/divorced brothers and sisters feel as though they have not yet fulfilled their purpose of creation. It’s a problem that marriage has become the goal of life. This is extremely dangerous and puts our unmarried brothers and sisters in a position where they feel as though they are not yet complete human beings or servants of their Creator. Marriage is not the purpose of life. It is one of many enablers to the purpose of life. Marriage is not the goal of life. It is not the End. It is just one of many *means* to the End: God.
-Yasmin Mogahed
amoeba makan faster food e.g. those gree things in the water. hahaha. mulut orang, tak dapat nak tutup.
i think that's a good point. matrimony is not for everyone.
good one!
sharing from Dear Blank Please Blank:
Dear aunties,
Please stop poking me at weddings saying, "You're next" or I'll start doing it to you at funerals.
Sincerely, 27 and single.
hahahahha. good one!
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